Empowering Women 101: Know the difference between real love and a person that is with you because it is easy and convenient. A real woman doesn't live in the fantasy that he just all of a sudden knew you were the one and no one else believes that either. Be willing to settle and accept the situation or work on it. However, don't sit in denial and pretend going through hell in a relationship was required before he saw your worth. He should have known from the beginning. Shannon L. Alder
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A person who is with you because it is easy and convenient. This kind of a person will give you what you need to feel good about yourself, not because he truly loves you or wants to be with you for real, but because he is afraid of being alone. Admit that maybe this person just wants a way out from his loneliness. However, this is not love. In the end, he will leave you for your inability to stand up for yourself and make him feel good about himself.

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